That's a heck of a use case to figure out! Only thing I can think of is something like the MEE M6 Pro in clear. I use mine for yard work & outdoors. They have pretty good noise isolation, pretty good sound, and they aren't anywhere near as obtrusive as you might think from looking at them alone in a picture. In fact, my biggest annoyance with them is that people walk up and start talking to me because they don't notice I have them on (even my blue ones). The over ear fit takes figuring out and getting used to, but once you do they are very stable, which I would think would be useful driving at speed.