Unfortunately, it sounds like you missed the boat on this. In the future, please have the correct billing, shipping information, and funds available. This drop was running for 7 days and everyone knew when it was going to end. You knew it was a high demand product and yet, some how there was a payment error (Processor Declined, which can mean a lot of things). We send out an automated email that will ask you to correct your information within the 24 hours we give to all users who have payment errors. It sounds like you didn't correct it in time and it's not fair for the rest of the group to wait because of x,y, z reasons. Trust me, we wanted to charge you for the goods, but we fill orders based on the people that have the correct payment information on file, hopefully you understand.
Also, not sure if email was the issue, but make sure you provide an email address that you check on a regular basis. We can't communicate updates or payment errors if it's going to a spam email account. One way to keep websites in check and see if your email is being sold is to append +website to your email, for example. firstname.lastname@example.org. If we do sell your account (we never will), you'll know the source and can act accordingly.